Anonymous wrote:55YO tecchie here. I would not say that I have not suffered the consequences of ageism - your experience matters not so much in core tech skills but most in PM - the ability to manage, create teams, complete projects on time and within budget. Ageism however, is more of a personal problem IMO. As you get older, no matter how sharp you may be, it just becomes harder (and often times frustrating) to keep abreast with advancement in technology. At some point, older techhies just get tired or learning.
Looks are one thing, year of graduation is another. A verifiable legally legit background/reference check is common if "Bachelor degree + 3 years or 7 years experience" is the req. College degree isn't protected under "age discrimination".Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Even young people look old these days. If you look reasonably OK and are well groomed you're good to go assuming you know the Tech and all
Well, my DH is overweight and grey, so maybe he has a point?
Get him a glow up. Tech bod is fine, but maybe color that hair, nice glasses and some premium hoodies
Pink or blue tip on the hair and a bushy beard can take off 20 years of aging. Put on funky glasses or shades, erase another 7-10 years.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Even young people look old these days. If you look reasonably OK and are well groomed you're good to go assuming you know the Tech and all
Well, my DH is overweight and grey, so maybe he has a point?
Get him a glow up. Tech bod is fine, but maybe color that hair, nice glasses and some premium hoodies
If he's worried about layoffs, 22 or 49 doesn't matter. $300K will often get cut before $50K even if 7 times more productive. He has more negotiating power before the layoff. Support him no matter what. You can always post his resume, after he switches. He only had to take the government job for 6 months for a clearance sponsorship to pay off. He likely will pursue commercial work again after 6 months as he might not feel challenged in such a slow lane.Anonymous wrote:With insane compensation and demand for tech skills, can we put to bed the worry that when you are 40 or 50 it would be hard to find a job in tech? My DH is a software engineer and wants to take a pay cut to go Fed ($300k to $176k) because he is worried about his current job and doesn’t think he can land another tech job if he is laid off. He’s 49 FWIW
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Even young people look old these days. If you look reasonably OK and are well groomed you're good to go assuming you know the Tech and all
Well, my DH is overweight and grey, so maybe he has a point?
Get him a glow up. Tech bod is fine, but maybe color that hair, nice glasses and some premium hoodies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Even young people look old these days. If you look reasonably OK and are well groomed you're good to go assuming you know the Tech and all
Well, my DH is overweight and grey, so maybe he has a point?
Anonymous wrote:Even young people look old these days. If you look reasonably OK and are well groomed you're good to go assuming you know the Tech and all
Anonymous wrote:Even young people look old these days. If you look reasonably OK and are well groomed you're good to go assuming you know the Tech and all