Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 09:41     Subject: early 40s in sexless relationship
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do you just lay there like a fish?


This. The hottest women I’ve slept with, just laid there and did nothing. Didn’t initiate anything, didn’t really try to do any foreplay, etc. Op have you tried to do more in terms of turning him on?


Are you saying she didn’t even reciprocate?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 09:35     Subject: Re:early 40s in sexless relationship
PP here: I must admit I find sex more irritating than not because I'd have to change the sheets.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 09:34     Subject: Re:early 40s in sexless relationship
Low t is real. Also in early 40s, have sex a few times a year, and don't really mind either.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 09:22     Subject: early 40s in sexless relationship
47 year old man. We do it once a week and it’s barely enough from keeping me climbing the walls. He is probably masterbating unsure why if you are eager. Do you initiate and he actually turns you down? Maybe he needs to know ahead of time to make sure he keeps his powder dry
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 09:19     Subject: early 40s in sexless relationship
Maybe he’s tired from doing the dishes everyday, have you treated him to a spa day?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 09:03     Subject: early 40s in sexless relationship
Not normal. There is something either significantly wrong with the relationship or wrong with him.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 08:44     Subject: early 40s in sexless relationship
Anonymous wrote:Do you just lay there like a fish?


This. The hottest women I’ve slept with, just laid there and did nothing. Didn’t initiate anything, didn’t really try to do any foreplay, etc. Op have you tried to do more in terms of turning him on?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 08:39     Subject: early 40s in sexless relationship
Normal. Wait a few years until you hit menopause - then you’ll complain that once a month is too much!
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 08:07     Subject: early 40s in sexless relationship
Not normal. Low T, depression, affair or not attracted to you. Since you are cute, I'd say not the latter. Have him go to the doctor and get a hormone evaluation.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 07:58     Subject: Re:early 40s in sexless relationship
Have you tried dressing up? Male here, and totally different behaving depending on wife’s dress when she’s asking. Sorry I’m one of those visual guys
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 02:15     Subject: early 40s in sexless relationship
Do you just lay there like a fish?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 00:47     Subject: Re:early 40s in sexless relationship
Why do your looks matter?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 00:36     Subject: Re:early 40s in sexless relationship
If he loves you why not ask him if he does? Do you think this board knows if he does?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 00:27     Subject: early 40s in sexless relationship
Low T perhaps?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2022 00:23     Subject: early 40s in sexless relationship
really good looking in early 40s. one child. healthy. we have sex once in two months. husband is also in early 40s. he is very loyal and loves me but does not care about sex? can it be true?

Again in a really good shape female 41 years old. I know it's not normal but can men do not care about sex? Does he masturbate? I am lost.