The ones who weren’t of low character—made a one-off bad decision in a moment of weakness, asked for forgiveness, never did it again.

The ones who were visibly of low character—did it unrepentantly, felt entitled to do it, only stopped because they were caught (if they ever were at all), would do it again if the opportunity presented itself.

Anecdotal, but I can only speak on what I’ve seen with my own two eyes. I’m sure there are secretly “trashy” people I don’t know about who don’t care if they caught, but that by virtue of itself makes them of low character.

There is a show called Maury that lays out who these people are

Any skilled cheater never tells anyone, not even their closest friends. So you'd likely never know.

No. In fact most are what DCUM regularly classified as " classy'"

Nope, they run a whole gamut of all sorts of people. The number of people you meet who are trashy is a function of who you choose to hang out with.

Anonymous wrote:Baloney. My Mom and Dad have been married 50+ years and I am 1,000 percent sure they have both been faithful. Ditto for my wife and myself, married nearly twenty years. When you have solid relationships and trust each other, you know.

DP. You are not part of your parents’ marriage. I am not saying either has cheated, but the ere are absolutely things about their marriage that you do not know.

no, some were quite nice

No. One of the worst cheaters I know is Waspy and preppy with impeccable manners and charm.

Baloney. My Mom and Dad have been married 50+ years and I am 1,000 percent sure they have both been faithful. Ditto for my wife and myself, married nearly twenty years. When you have solid relationships and trust each other, you know.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have you any clue how prolific cheating is? Who are you people that get so hung up on monogamy? Read a book.

I never cheated so no clue. My mother has been monogamous to my father for 50 yrs. Sorry your views are warped.

DP. Has your father been monogamous to your mother the entire time too?

To the Daughter who’s Mom has been monogamous to my father for 50 yrs. You will NEVER know if your father has done the same. Some cheaters never get caught. Sorry to bust your bubble.

Yes. Definitely!

Mostly in their manner of behavior at social functions, etc.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have you any clue how prolific cheating is? Who are you people that get so hung up on monogamy? Read a book.

I never cheated so no clue. My mother has been monogamous to my father for 50 yrs. Sorry your views are warped.

DP. Has your father been monogamous to your mother the entire time too?

Anonymous wrote:Have you any clue how prolific cheating is? Who are you people that get so hung up on monogamy? Read a book.

I never cheated so no clue. My mother has been monogamous to my father for 50 yrs. Sorry your views are warped.

Have you any clue how prolific cheating is? Who are you people that get so hung up on monogamy? Read a book.

In other ways? The act of cheating in itself is a trash move but I find that the person is trashy in other ways as well.