Yes, but only AFTER my wife's first pregnancy. There is something about your wife's pregnancy that causes you to look at other pregnant women differently.

They were being polite. DH recently informed me he doesn’t have a fetish and realized that when I really started showing. He thinks I’m beautiful but doesn’t really get turned on with my big belly. We are still intimate but pregnancy isn’t really a turn on for most men.

Not mine. TMI but H was on top when I was very heavily pregnant with DC1 and the fetus kicked him in the stomach. H refused to have sex with me the entire time when I was pregnant with DC2.

No DH is somewhat repulsed by pregnant women. He loves me, loves our children, but wasn't interested in me while pregnant. He'd never own up to it (he's not a rude ahole), but he didn't want to have sex with me and generally didn't like my body. I thought I was a cute pregnant woman too.

I think most men don't find pregnant women more attractive than non pregnant women. Frankly it's a little weird the men who like women looking motherly and pregnant. It's a weird fetish. I think men should find their own pregnant wife attractive though.

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Some guys have a pregnant fetish. It’s a thing.

Why would any woman care if other men find them attractive? I find it sad that so many women get their self worth from men.

I think a very small sub-set of men fetishize pregnant women. Most men think their wives look beautiful when carrying their child. I don’t think many men find random pregnant women attractive.

I have never been hit on more by strangers than when I was visibly pregnant.

Anonymous wrote:But in general is there a time between 4-8 months where pregnant women naturally attract more attention from men? Or is it simply a personal connection to this woman that makes these group of men agree that she is striking while carrying a baby (not her first).

They were not agreeing she was striking while carrying a baby, they were being polite.

With my child yes, random pregnant women, absolutely not

If she is my wife, absolutely. Otherwise, no way. Not at all.

I think most people believe women should have flat or concave stomachs which is insane and not even healthy.

When a generally pretty woman is pregnant there’s no expectation for her stomach to be flat and so I think many people think she looks pretty because they’re not judging her stomach or her hips actually.


As I think many men are in awe of the fact that women can carry a baby.

Of course there’s just the ridiculous self-centered narcissistic man that won’t feel this way.

No, not at all. Not to this man.

A friend is recently pregnant (or at least recently showing). We were at dinner with a group of friends and when the pregnant woman got up from the table, one of the women made a "hot mama" comment. It became clear that the (married and platonic) men around the table all agreed. This woman is generally pretty but not a supermodel. We ended up having a discussion about whether it was the physical or biological changes that bring on this new found admiration.

I am not talking about 9 month waddlers on their way to giving birth. But in general is there a time between 4-8 months where pregnant women naturally attract more attention from men? Or is it simply a personal connection to this woman that makes these group of men agree that she is striking while carrying a baby (not her first).