My kids (twins) were developmentally delayed. They walked and talked late. They had physical, occupational, speech, play therapy and probably other therapy that I can’t remember. Did I share with every member of our family? No. We were on top of it and did not need everyone else’s opinions on the subject. Our empty nester next door neighbors told us that one of their sons walked late but that he walked just fine now (he was about 30). It was one of the nicest comments we heard. I will tell you that both of my kids (now in their 20’s) walk and talk perfectly well. I will also tell you that I know a number of people with profound hearing loss and they lead productive, fulfilling lives. I have three friends around my age (50’s) who grew up lip reading and now have coclear implants. I have a friend with a deaf son who has a coclear implant. He went to a special school for kids with coclear implants and then went to public school around 3rd grade. He just graduated college and works in finance. There is no limitation to what your nephew can do. He may need some help and support but I’m sure his parents are on top of it. As an out of town great aunt, you do not need to offer suggestions. Just be supportive and loving and non judgmental. The parents and the kids can sense judgment - trust me - I live it

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