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Anonymous wrote:Definitely autistic to say it even if he is joking.

My (beloved) aspie husband keeps spreadsheets about restaurants, movies, trip ideas, all sorts of things. Either he's joking that you have a lot of ideas of things to do together, or he's being literal and wants to keep tabs on the ideas so you don't lose track of them.

You and PP may be into something. He does seem potentially a little neuroatypical. But, I am too.

Anonymous wrote:Definitely autistic to say it even if he is joking.

My (beloved) aspie husband keeps spreadsheets about restaurants, movies, trip ideas, all sorts of things. Either he's joking that you have a lot of ideas of things to do together, or he's being literal and wants to keep tabs on the ideas so you don't lose track of them.

Anonymous wrote:You misunderstood but if you want to know if he’s dating people, ask him

This.

Women somehow remember EVERYTHING related to their guy. They have the memory of elephants. I'm honestly shocked at the stuff my DW pulls out of thin air about me - "Oh you took that trip with Friend A and Friend B to [PLACE] when we first started dating. You did X, Y, Z on the trip but really didn't like the restaurant you ate at on the 3rd night."

I couldn't even remember all that and it happened to me.

As a guy, I would need to write these date ideas down to remember him. I have over 100 Notes in my app on my iPhone so I don't forget anything.

You misunderstood but if you want to know if he’s dating people, ask him

Remove yourself from the dating pool. Way too dramatic

Anonymous wrote:Probably a compliment to you assuming you do have a lot of dating ideas.

OP said he said “we” so he also must have ideas. Regardless, sounds exclusive.

Definitely autistic to say it even if he is joking.

Anonymous wrote:You should set up a spreadsheet that has the things he says in one column, and the possible meanings in another. Then ask us to vote on the most likely answer.

Funny.

It means nothing. He made a comment in passing. It is not so deep.

In a future conversation you need to tell him that you like it when people tell you want they want to say, since you are bad at mindreading.

All he is saying is that you have had so many good dates that he wants to remember them and not get them confused. He was complimenting you and you decided to get insecure instead

Anonymous wrote:Correct me if I’m wrong here. Man I’m dating recently joked that we have so many good date ideas he will need to start a spreadsheet. This can only mean that he is dating multiple people at once, right? I mean, somehow I keep this information in my head. It’s technically fair since we haven’t had an exclusivity conversation yet and I’m not even sure about wanting one yet. But still, this can only mean one thing, right?

I would interpret as him hinting you are too pushy. You need to see if he takes the lead more

You should set up a spreadsheet that has the things he says in one column, and the possible meanings in another. Then ask us to vote on the most likely answer.

Probably a compliment to you assuming you do have a lot of dating ideas.

You totally misunderstood

Correct me if I’m wrong here. Man I’m dating recently joked that we have so many good date ideas he will need to start a spreadsheet. This can only mean that he is dating multiple people at once, right? I mean, somehow I keep this information in my head. It’s technically fair since we haven’t had an exclusivity conversation yet and I’m not even sure about wanting one yet. But still, this can only mean one thing, right?