Anonymous wrote:I was 36. I’m a female. Looking back there were definitely flags I just think I was oblivious. I am 48 now and happily married to a woman. I would describe myself as sexually bisexual but emotionally gay if u had to label myself.
I've posted quite a bit about my story: My bipolar H was cheating on me with men, gave me an STD, we divorced. He still considered himself 100% straight -- I think because of the distinction you make above between sex and emotions. He (purportedly) has no interest in being in a relationship with a man, so he can't even call himself bi. We really need terms that distinguish between sex and romance.