Anonymous
Post 02/09/2022 07:52     Subject: Re:Anyone discover they were gay super late?

I am a woman and aesthetically and sexually attracted to women but really want to be fu*coed by a man. I enjoy getting to know men and building intimacy with them. I’ve never been with a woman though it would be interesting.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2022 02:28     Subject: Anyone discover they were gay super late?

I mean if megan fox or her lookalike showed interest then yes i'd consider myself bi
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2022 00:33     Subject: Re:Anyone discover they were gay super late?

Anonymous wrote:I was 36. I’m a female. Looking back there were definitely flags I just think I was oblivious. I am 48 now and happily married to a woman. I would describe myself as sexually bisexual but emotionally gay if u had to label myself.


I've posted quite a bit about my story: My bipolar H was cheating on me with men, gave me an STD, we divorced. He still considered himself 100% straight -- I think because of the distinction you make above between sex and emotions. He (purportedly) has no interest in being in a relationship with a man, so he can't even call himself bi. We really need terms that distinguish between sex and romance.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 22:46     Subject: Re:Anyone discover they were gay super late?

Anonymous wrote:Should be in the lgbtq forum


I think it can be helpful for there to be crossover now and again. This might help someone that is not quite sure of their own preferences.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 22:21     Subject: Re:Anyone discover they were gay super late?

Should be in the lgbtq forum
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 21:58     Subject: Anyone discover they were gay super late?

discover, no. admit or accept, probably.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 21:25     Subject: Anyone discover they were gay super late?

Anonymous wrote:I know a couple/few women who were happily married to men and basically just woke up one day and announced "I'm not attracted to you anymore, and I want a divorce." They (I can only think of two specific friends but I know there are more in my circles) really just decided to switch teams.


This was what happened to my exDW
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 21:16     Subject: Re:Anyone discover they were gay super late?

Anonymous wrote:I was 36. I’m a female. Looking back there were definitely flags I just think I was oblivious. I am 48 now and happily married to a woman. I would describe myself as sexually bisexual but emotionally gay if u had to label myself.


Can you share more about how you figured this out? And what you mean by sexually bisexual but emotionally gay?
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 21:16     Subject: Anyone discover they were gay super late?

I know a couple/few women who were happily married to men and basically just woke up one day and announced "I'm not attracted to you anymore, and I want a divorce." They (I can only think of two specific friends but I know there are more in my circles) really just decided to switch teams.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 21:14     Subject: Anyone discover they were gay super late?

What were the flags, if you don’t mind sharing?
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 21:12     Subject: Re:Anyone discover they were gay super late?

I was 36. I’m a female. Looking back there were definitely flags I just think I was oblivious. I am 48 now and happily married to a woman. I would describe myself as sexually bisexual but emotionally gay if u had to label myself.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 21:08     Subject: Re:Anyone discover they were gay super late?

By late do you mean you are in a heterosexual marriage with kids?
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 21:07     Subject: Anyone discover they were gay super late?

Anonymous wrote:It’s never too late to be gay

+ a million.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 20:38     Subject: Anyone discover they were gay super late?

It’s never too late to be gay
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2022 20:03     Subject: Anyone discover they were gay super late?

Tell me about your experience…,