Anonymous wrote:I agree with other posters - New Trier is a huge suburban school that happens to attract affluent and highly educated parents. It likely has many high achievers creating a pressured environment, so I'd worry about stress/anxiety and burnout for the average student.
I'm a Stuy/Harvard alum. If we were weighing options like New Trier, SEHS public like Walter Payton, or private, I would probably lean towards a more progressive private school and live in the city depending on the student. High school admissions in Chicago is crazy, though. Many families move to the north shore to avoid that process.
I am a Deerfield grad. State and national athletic champion - the schools in the Central Suburban league are very supportive of athletics. Deerfield had a lot of soft kids, but they treated my brother and me (my brother a multiple NCAA All American and Phd in economics) very well. Most of my AP class friends were into music and theater - and showed tremendous respect to me. No bullying, no ostracism. The New Trier kids were the same, notwithstanding the kick we got out of crushing them in athletics. My brother and I were one of the rare poor single mother students in Deerfield. I went to Duke on athletic scholarship. Deerfield prepared me incredibly well, despite having no social background for a place like Duke and the demands of athletics. Me and my two DHS classmates at Duke easily measured up with the prep school kids. They had a slight advantage in course like Freshman English because they often had already read the books for their prep school summer reading list, but it was not much of an advantage. None of the public suburban schools mentioned in Illinois are magnets, so overall the score averages are not the same as as a place like TJ. My kids went to TJ and both went on to Princeton, but they would have done the same had I stayed in Illinois and lived in Deerfield or Lake Forest or Glencoe. To the person who averred Illinois doesn't have people who have great educational outcomes, they must not be familiar with the area. In fact, the problem with schools like Deerfield, which is much better than the non-magnets in Virginia or Maryland, is that there is no diversity. Chicago remains one of the most segregated metro areas in the country. I had plenty of diversity through athletics, and indeed got a lot socially out of the 50 mile drives to the southern suburbs or up to Waukegan for competition, but there is not much diversity in the North Shore high schools {and in Deerfield's case I don't count Michael Jordan's kids as diversifying Deerfield). The sister school in the school district - Highland Park - has a cadre of immigrants who have settled around the former Fort Sheridan area in Highwood, but they make up a small portion of the school. Highland Park's top end of the class was extraordinary - the kids along the lake come from significant wealth. I had a choice to go to either high school - there is a zone where a student can choose - but Highland Park just wasn't very good at sports back then so it was not much of a choice. We shared at graduation venue at Ravinia, the summer home of the Chicago Symphony where kids like me could attend at little cost (again, the person who thought Illinois is rife with idiots just doesn't know the area), and my brother and I conceded that after knowing some HP students that the top of their class was every bit the measure of anything New Trier produced.
The problem with Illinois is that its finances are in such bad shape that it is difficult to justify living there. The pension problem is the nation's largest per capita, and while taxes are already sky high, they are going to go higher. And it is not just taxation rates or levels, people just don't feel comfortable having 40 percent of their taxes going towards work already performed (many places in Illinois are approaching this level with health benefits included), and they find it difficult to stay in Illinois. It ranks at the top in political corruption, too - not an opinion but surveys consistently rank it so - and it just is becoming a less desirable place to live. Apart from U of I UC, the public university system is mediocre, with 50 percent of students leaving the state. The state is losing population, likely a reflection of the state's corrupt politics and poor financial management. My mother's family is four generations from Lake Forest, one of the servant class families for the McCormick estate. I had every reason and advantage to stay in the Chicago area, and chose not to do so. I am glad I did not - as much as I could have afforded North Shore homes I used to simply gaze at.