Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How incredibly rude. "The cools kids are coming, I want to drop the uncool kids from the invitation."
WOW.
Why keep reminding those too rude to reply? If they can't bother replying why would you send a reminder? What makes someone uncool is not replying.
But that's NOT what OP is asking. She's saying everyone her kid wants to come is coming and she doesn't want to remind anyone else about the party because she's happy they're not coming. I'm not sure why she invited all those other people. I think that's rude.
It sounds like the 3-8 kids her kid cared about rsvped yes. She's fine limiting it now, but wanted options earlier to have a decent number of kids.
I agree with OP, I don't want people rsvping the night before the party!