Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:thanks PP, but I was asking for recommendation on specific sites/ apps to use. Which one have you been using?

I only use Bumble. I use the incognito mode so people can't see me unless I want them to.

Me too!! -45 yo woman, kids, won’t remarry.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mid 40's male here. Two kids. No interest in getting married but want an LTR. I'm currently using Hinge and Bumble.

Tried Tinder, but that's a shit show.

Out of curiosity, do you have your filter set to date women also in their mid-40s. On these apps, it seems like the men in their 40s want to date younger women and the men dating women in their 40s are 50s-60s. I want to date men my age...but can't find any.

What is your profile like? I’m 46, my range is 34-54. I prefer to date men in the 38-45 range, I have many matches. I’d review your profile

OP here - thank you PP. It's not like I am looking for a husband, but I don't think I would have much in common with guys in their 30s with no kids....so looking for a site where I can find guys who probably already had kids and are 40s/50s.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mid 40's male here. Two kids. No interest in getting married but want an LTR. I'm currently using Hinge and Bumble.

Tried Tinder, but that's a shit show.

Out of curiosity, do you have your filter set to date women also in their mid-40s. On these apps, it seems like the men in their 40s want to date younger women and the men dating women in their 40s are 50s-60s. I want to date men my age...but can't find any.

I am the PP who was the first responder in this post who is mid-40s. I have not found men wanting to date younger women. However, I date men in their late 30s. I don't date my age or older. There is no need when I can date younger men. I am not interested in remarriage. I look like I am in my 30s, so maybe that helps, but I literally have not found a lack of men in 30s or 40s to date nor have I experienced them wanting to date younger at all.

Anonymous wrote:thanks PP, but I was asking for recommendation on specific sites/ apps to use. Which one have you been using?

I only use Bumble. I use the incognito mode so people can't see me unless I want them to.

OP, thanks PP, yeah well I am not looking for 32 year olds. So, match might be a better fit for me?

I’m a 50yo mom on Hinge and I find it to be pretty young. Most of the guys who like me are under 32.

OP here - thanks for the tips. Did not know about hinge, will check it out.

I like Hinge. Tinder is OK but you need to weed out the crazy people.

Anonymous wrote:Mid 40's male here. Two kids. No interest in getting married but want an LTR. I'm currently using Hinge and Bumble.

Tried Tinder, but that's a shit show.

Out of curiosity, do you have your filter set to date women also in their mid-40s. On these apps, it seems like the men in their 40s want to date younger women and the men dating women in their 40s are 50s-60s. I want to date men my age...but can't find any.

Male here. 50s.

I was happy with Match. I had less success with Bumble and OK Cupid. Avoid Tinder. You know little to nothing about the person you are “swiping” on.

Mid 40's male here. Two kids. No interest in getting married but want an LTR. I'm currently using Hinge and Bumble.

Tried Tinder, but that's a shit show.

thanks PP, but I was asking for recommendation on specific sites/ apps to use. Which one have you been using?

My experience finding a boyfriend has been good…but I am not looking to cohabitate or remarry. Mid 40s, two kids

hello,
50 year old single mom of two kids here.
Which dating site/app would you recommend? Not looking for a fling or one-night stand. Should I use a match-maker? Did you have good luck finding quality / available guys on any of the sites or apps? Thanks!