I think kids that age like to talk. Talk alone without adults around. That's really all they want, isn't it.

a fun manicure

Escape room

For the parties we throw and that my kids have been invited to - there is no pre-sleepover activity

The kids usually arrive around 5 - then have time to play, eat dinner, watch a movie.

Dinner in one of those igloos at a restaurant?

What does your kid like ? Indoor rock climbing, ice skating, pottery session, ?

Just a small group of friends. Any outings you would recommend prior to sleepover? Thanks!