Man asking. I have a number of very nice 100 pct cotton dress shirts. Due to Covid they haven’t been worn much. However, when I wear them, after about two hours, my neck feels very uncomfortable from the collar rubbing. The collars seem very well made, but a little stiff, which looks nice, but is proving to be uncomfortable. Will washing the shirts over and over soften the collar? Or any thing else you can think of to make the collars more comfortable? (I am wearing the correct neck size size.) Other than this, they are beautiful shirts, but I am disappointed.