Anonymous wrote:Anyone else find these threads weird? I feel like people may use them as some sort of checklist/cheat sheet. More than just idle curiosity. OP, were you UMC/UC? I just don't get the fixation.

I know several people who always try to act rich. I know them fairly well so I know they are not from money. Everything they say or do screams I am rich or wannabe rich.

Anonymous wrote:I always considered UC generational wealth.

We have a seven figure income and an eight figure net worth. Some people may say we are rich but we are definitely not UC. We are solidly UMC. We travel 10x per year, ivy educated, country club, ski, golf, play tennis, etc. My kid has had a pony at her party and that really isn’t expensive or hard to do at all.

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Tom me UC is billionaires, 100 millionaires and people who may not have a high net worth but are old money and exist in that world.

I always considered UC generational wealth.

We have a seven figure income and an eight figure net worth. Some people may say we are rich but we are definitely not UC. We are solidly UMC. We travel 10x per year, ivy educated, country club, ski, golf, play tennis, etc. My kid has had a pony at her party and that really isn’t expensive or hard to do at all.

All the super rich people I know always have a ton of staff in their houses at all times.

I'll bite on UC. Some of this depends on where you live and exactly how rich you are. Multiple servants (full-time housekeeper, and nanny, and gardener/handyman for example). Private school for kids. Vacations are at private/exclusive places and you stay at your vacation home (or grandparents vacation home or friends' vacation homes.) You visit the right places (Aspen, the Hamptons, New York or Euro capitals for shopping). Not all UC people are into tons of designer clothes, but, designer bags, shoes, watches/jewelry very common. Time and money spent on "maintenance" (plastic surgery, skin treatments, hair color, nails).

My spouse said his nanny used to bring him breakfast to eat in bed throughout his elementary years. Also each of his siblings had their own nannies on top of 2-3 live-in maids.

Anonymous wrote:Anyone else find these threads weird? I feel like people may use them as some sort of checklist/cheat sheet. More than just idle curiosity. OP, were you UMC/UC? I just don't get the fixation.

I don’t see how it’s weird. I would never talk about this in real life.

I grew up lower middle and now we are upper middle but my father was UC. I’m genuinely curious.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a totally different poster. But curious to see what these could be for a UC childhood.

I’m adding what I think these can be.

1. Early years raised by nanny and mom
2. High end clothing, Gucci Balmain for special occasions
3. No tech
4. Knows 2-3 languages
5,. Etiquette classes
6. Lots of extracurriculars
7. Travel at least 4 times a year

Lol the rich don't get and stay rich by putting their toddlers in Balmain. NOKD.

The Peltz family (billionaires) do have their kids in Balmain. That’s actually where I got that reference from. I see a lot of new UC also do this.

We had a chauffeur. Dressed in a black suit. Drove a black Lincoln Town Car. If it's raining, he'd be right there at the door waiting with an open umbrella.

Anonymous wrote:I’m not UC, but my wealthy cousin had a pony brought in for her three-year-old’s birthday party. There are many more significant markers of her kids’ privilege but that is what always comes to mind for me.

Having a pony brought in costs like $300.

Anonymous wrote:I’m a totally different poster. But curious to see what these could be for a UC childhood.

I’m adding what I think these can be.

1. Early years raised by nanny and mom
2. High end clothing, Gucci Balmain for special occasions
3. No tech
4. Knows 2-3 languages
5,. Etiquette classes
6. Lots of extracurriculars
7. Travel at least 4 times a year

Lol the rich don't get and stay rich by putting their toddlers in Balmain. NOKD.

There are no hallmarks. UC people are generally pretty nuts, troubled and messy. So, that I guess.

Anyone else find these threads weird? I feel like people may use them as some sort of checklist/cheat sheet. More than just idle curiosity. OP, were you UMC/UC? I just don't get the fixation.

I’m not UC, but my wealthy cousin had a pony brought in for her three-year-old’s birthday party. There are many more significant markers of her kids’ privilege but that is what always comes to mind for me.

I’m a totally different poster. But curious to see what these could be for a UC childhood.

I’m adding what I think these can be.

1. Early years raised by nanny and mom
2. High end clothing, Gucci Balmain for special occasions
3. No tech
4. Knows 2-3 languages
5,. Etiquette classes
6. Lots of extracurriculars
7. Travel at least 4 times a year