Anonymous
01/08/2022 00:55
Subject: Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
Anonymous wrote:I think if you're asking you know the answer is no.
My question is why are you considering this?
She knows an ugly guy with money. 🙄
Anonymous
01/08/2022 00:28
Subject: Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
Anonymous wrote:I was not attracted to my first husband, but I wanted to get married. It got to the point that intimacy felt rapey. I just couldn’t do it anymore.
Damn, I feel sorry for the man having to marry and put up with a garbage wife like you.
Anonymous
01/08/2022 00:14
Subject: Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
Genuinely curious,
Why do women do this? What is going through your mind when you are having sex with a guy you aren’t attracted to? It’s an alien concept to me.
Why do women do this? What is going through your mind when you are having sex with a guy you aren’t attracted to? It’s an alien concept to me.
Anonymous
01/07/2022 23:52
Subject: Re:Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
Don’t do it! Wasting your time. Ask me how I know. Lol.
Anonymous
01/07/2022 23:47
Subject: Re:Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
I’m a woman and tried a few times with great men. Never worked and I wasted both our times.
Anonymous
01/07/2022 23:44
Subject: Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
What is his income?
Anonymous
01/07/2022 23:40
Subject: Re:Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
Biggest attraction of my life did not start as an attraction. It was 100% psychological.
Anonymous
01/07/2022 23:24
Subject: Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
I think if you're asking you know the answer is no.
My question is why are you considering this?
My question is why are you considering this?
Anonymous
01/07/2022 23:20
Subject: Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
I (a woman) have never had success with romantic feelings growing over time. To me, they are either there or not.
Anonymous
01/07/2022 23:19
Subject: Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
I was not attracted to my first husband, but I wanted to get married. It got to the point that intimacy felt rapey. I just couldn’t do it anymore.
Anonymous
01/07/2022 23:02
Subject: Re:Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This only works for women in cases where they are not repulsed by a man. If they don't have strong feelings, they can eventually become attracted the more they get to know the person.
But there are women with very strong yes or no, and for them growing attraction is impossible.
As in, it doesn’t work for men?
Less frequently, I think.
Sort of related - one study showed that couples who start out as friends show more differences (background, ethnicities) than those who meet online/start romantically.
Anonymous
01/07/2022 22:46
Subject: Re:Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
Anonymous wrote:This only works for women in cases where they are not repulsed by a man. If they don't have strong feelings, they can eventually become attracted the more they get to know the person.
But there are women with very strong yes or no, and for them growing attraction is impossible.
As in, it doesn’t work for men?
Anonymous
01/07/2022 22:45
Subject: Re:Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
This only works for women in cases where they are not repulsed by a man. If they don't have strong feelings, they can eventually become attracted the more they get to know the person.
But there are women with very strong yes or no, and for them growing attraction is impossible.
But there are women with very strong yes or no, and for them growing attraction is impossible.
Anonymous
01/07/2022 22:37
Subject: Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
Yes, possible. Attraction can grow as you get to know someone. As your bond deepens you’re attracted to them — the physical part is attractive because it’s them, not because it’s objectively attractive.
A physically attractive person can also become repellent as you get to know them.
A physically attractive person can also become repellent as you get to know them.
Anonymous
01/07/2022 22:31
Subject: Relationship with someone you’re not initially physically attracted to
Well…is it possible? Can physical attractiveness grow on you? How has it worked out?