At around 50 during peri menopause only.

Not yet but I pee a lot. Just. Turned 60

At 40, after a vaginal delivery which destroyed my pelvic floor. I used a pessary for a few years, which was a miracle from where I was, but still needed to wear a liner. Then I had a urethral sling done, and it was life changing. Wish I didn't wait that long to do it.

Get thee to a urogyn. Life is too short to deal with peeing when dancing, laughing, and otherwise enjoying yourself.

At 49. It’s awful. Finally getting help.

Anonymous wrote:64, and mine started maybe 3 years ago. Mild, can use light pads. I am overweight. Have not had kids.

I am afraid to go to urologist because I don't want surgery. I know I should try those exercises...

No ethical doctor is going to say get surgery when the first thing you should try is pelvic floor therapy. Go to a pelvic floor therapist.

64, and mine started maybe 3 years ago. Mild, can use light pads. I am overweight. Have not had kids.

I am afraid to go to urologist because I don't want surgery. I know I should try those exercises...

60 and don’t have it.

Pelvic floor physical therapy with Pilates or yoga. Good luck!

Could it be diabetes?

Since child birth over twenty years ago, I developed slight incontinence especially when I cough. I have done a lot of core strengthening exercises to help prevent it but it has not gone completely.

I wear light feminine pads.

If yours is sudden onset out of no where, I would have a doctor investigate whether it is within normal limits of ageing and how best to manage it.

Good luck ! It can be so embarrassing!

Not ordinary Op

After each kidney stone is removed, I have to start all over again with kegels kegels kegels.

Don’t think it’s normal even for an older person. See a urologist.

Have you given birth?

Out of the blue at 58 it’s starting, never had this problem before. My husband and I stopped having sex a while ago.