Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 10:29     Subject: Re:Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

This happens. Once you get married, the opporutiies to meet people are fewer, as is the time if you're home all the time. Also, your libido goes down as you age so less desire to do so.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 10:28     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

Absolutely

-jon250+
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 10:23     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How does one chest before marriage?


That's my question. There is no reason for monogamy until you're married, as far as I'm concerned. I guess, everyone should be on the same page about that while dating, so since I wasn't always open about that, I guess I did "cheat" on boyfriends, including my now husband, before getting engaged. Once engaged, i was committed. Have been faithfully married for 23 years.


Pretty sure most people disagree with you. I don’t think anyone would be so blasé about a serious boyfriend or girlfriend sleeping with other people. That’s pretty disrespectful, at a minimum.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 09:59     Subject: Re:Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

From what I can tell my wife did and hasn't since. But of course who knows, which is the same with people who didn't cheat before marriage. People aren't good at monogamy
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 09:37     Subject: Re:Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

Anonymous wrote:I did. 15 years in to a great marriage now.


+1. About the same for me as well. I'm not sure there's a story per se but I'm definitely not the same person in my late 40s that I was in my early 20s.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 09:37     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How does one chest before marriage?


That's my question. There is no reason for monogamy until you're married, as far as I'm concerned. I guess, everyone should be on the same page about that while dating, so since I wasn't always open about that, I guess I did "cheat" on boyfriends, including my now husband, before getting engaged. Once engaged, i was committed. Have been faithfully married for 23 years.


What? Most people are exclusive once dating seriously. We had a conversation about a month or two in, got tested, and that was it. Weren’t engaged until almost two years later.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 09:23     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

Anonymous wrote:How does one chest before marriage?


That's my question. There is no reason for monogamy until you're married, as far as I'm concerned. I guess, everyone should be on the same page about that while dating, so since I wasn't always open about that, I guess I did "cheat" on boyfriends, including my now husband, before getting engaged. Once engaged, i was committed. Have been faithfully married for 23 years.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 09:17     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

Anonymous wrote:How does one chest before marriage?


Why are you the way that you are?
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 08:49     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

How does one chest before marriage?
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 08:17     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry, don’t fall for it.

I married a confessed cheater, cheated on his first wife and they divorced. He told me everything, claimed he was reformed.

I married him, he cheated 2x that I know about. I forgave the first time the second time we divorced.

Marry at your own risk, a leopard doesn’t change its spots.


Classic serial cheater behavior.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 07:14     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

Not on DH, but on pretty much all boyfriends before him. I’ve been married faithfully for 22 years.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 07:07     Subject: Re:Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

I did. 15 years in to a great marriage now.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 06:31     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

I’m sorry, don’t fall for it.

I married a confessed cheater, cheated on his first wife and they divorced. He told me everything, claimed he was reformed.

I married him, he cheated 2x that I know about. I forgave the first time the second time we divorced.

Marry at your own risk, a leopard doesn’t change its spots.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 01:38     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

Once a cheat always a cheat
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2021 01:05     Subject: Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

Anyone cheat on their spouse before marriage, but become faithful after walking down the aisle? Please
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