Anonymous
01/04/2022 16:45
Subject: Both butches?
Put something like "butch4butch" into your profile in a welcoming way, there are more of us out there than you think
Anonymous
12/12/2021 09:44
Subject: Both butches?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What about softening your looks a bit to attract the type of woman you like? If this is bad advice or offensive, I'm sorry. If I were striking out, I'd definitely change my tactics.
Not offended. And probably this is what I’m going to do.
Not too much. You want to be you.
Anonymous
11/26/2021 20:49
Subject: Both butches?
Anonymous wrote:What about softening your looks a bit to attract the type of woman you like? If this is bad advice or offensive, I'm sorry. If I were striking out, I'd definitely change my tactics.
Not offended. And probably this is what I’m going to do.
Anonymous
11/26/2021 20:06
Subject: Both butches?
Agree that “butch seeks butch” is your best bet! Good luck.
-Femme Seeking Femme
-Femme Seeking Femme
Anonymous
11/26/2021 19:57
Subject: Both butches?
What about softening your looks a bit to attract the type of woman you like? If this is bad advice or offensive, I'm sorry. If I were striking out, I'd definitely change my tactics.
Anonymous
11/26/2021 19:10
Subject: Both butches?
What about dating apps? Can’t you say what you’re interested in?
Anonymous
11/26/2021 18:52
Subject: Both butches?
I’m a lesbian in the dating world again after a long hiatus (marriage, divorce etc) and noticed a problem.
1. I need to feel physical attraction. I’m not someone who can get to know someone I’m not attracted to and develop feelings. I’m attracted or I’m not. If I’m attracted, then I want to get to know the person, and what I learn will either make me want to get closer, or not.
2. I am androgynous-to-masculine presenting
3. The women I most attracted to are about androgynous-to-masculine
4. I get attention from other women but usually not the masculine ones I want attention from, they pretty much ignore me
It sucks. I think I understand why it is and what it comes from. But I’d sure like to know if there is a way around it other than wearing a sign around my neck that screams “I’m versatile!”
Any ideas, DCUM?
1. I need to feel physical attraction. I’m not someone who can get to know someone I’m not attracted to and develop feelings. I’m attracted or I’m not. If I’m attracted, then I want to get to know the person, and what I learn will either make me want to get closer, or not.
2. I am androgynous-to-masculine presenting
3. The women I most attracted to are about androgynous-to-masculine
4. I get attention from other women but usually not the masculine ones I want attention from, they pretty much ignore me
It sucks. I think I understand why it is and what it comes from. But I’d sure like to know if there is a way around it other than wearing a sign around my neck that screams “I’m versatile!”
Any ideas, DCUM?