Anonymous
11/20/2021 18:40
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
Congratulations!
Anonymous
11/20/2021 09:39
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP I so get it. One of our best holidays was when our first born infant had out of control reflux and we stayed home. Miraculously no vomit during the meal and we were so relaxed hanging out in our pajamas!
The one blessing of the pandemic was having an excuse to have a drama free and peaceful holiday. We loved it.
Navigating family expectations can be tricky, but you shouldn't need a seriously ill infant or a deadly global pandemic to do as you please on a holiday.
Oh honey you don't know dysfunctional families. The times we have set boundaries otherwise we get a barrage of tantrums, insults, manipulations and so much more. Yes, therapy helps, but some people cannot fathom the level of crazy that lurks behind that seemingly picture perfect extended family Thanksgiving.
Anonymous
11/19/2021 21:43
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
Enjoy your new traditions!!
I love my family and enjoy the holidays with them but every now and then I wish I could just spend it with friends. You get to do that, have a blast!
I love my family and enjoy the holidays with them but every now and then I wish I could just spend it with friends. You get to do that, have a blast!
Anonymous
11/19/2021 14:35
Subject: Re:May I shamelessly gush?!
Gush away, Lucky you!
I wish I could make a similar move so I don't have to see my relative's abusive husband for the holidays. I would miss the other relatives, but that it would be so worth it.
I wish I could make a similar move so I don't have to see my relative's abusive husband for the holidays. I would miss the other relatives, but that it would be so worth it.
Anonymous
11/19/2021 11:40
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
Anonymous wrote:OP I so get it. One of our best holidays was when our first born infant had out of control reflux and we stayed home. Miraculously no vomit during the meal and we were so relaxed hanging out in our pajamas!
The one blessing of the pandemic was having an excuse to have a drama free and peaceful holiday. We loved it.
Navigating family expectations can be tricky, but you shouldn't need a seriously ill infant or a deadly global pandemic to do as you please on a holiday.
Anonymous
11/19/2021 11:18
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
OP I so get it. One of our best holidays was when our first born infant had out of control reflux and we stayed home. Miraculously no vomit during the meal and we were so relaxed hanging out in our pajamas!
The one blessing of the pandemic was having an excuse to have a drama free and peaceful holiday. We loved it.
The one blessing of the pandemic was having an excuse to have a drama free and peaceful holiday. We loved it.
Anonymous
11/19/2021 10:46
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
Be careful what you wish for/ gush about, OP.
Anonymous
11/19/2021 10:43
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
Debating doing this very thing.
Anonymous
11/19/2021 10:41
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We moved away from family for a job opportunity earlier this year. This will be the first year we won’t see family for the holidays.
As sad as I am not to see my parents, I’m equal parts or even MORE excited we don’t have to fake our way through the holiday with DH toxic family. Even he has commented on how peaceful and relaxing things will be this year. This is the best thing to ever happen for our family.
Another "I hate my in-laws post"! How original OP!
There you are! I was waiting for you to show up!
Anonymous
11/19/2021 10:35
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
I put an ocean between me and my mother 20 years ago, OP, and haven't regretted it since. I am very happy when I see her, about once a year. More would be detrimental to my health.
Anonymous
11/19/2021 10:32
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
Anonymous wrote:We moved away from family for a job opportunity earlier this year. This will be the first year we won’t see family for the holidays.
As sad as I am not to see my parents, I’m equal parts or even MORE excited we don’t have to fake our way through the holiday with DH toxic family. Even he has commented on how peaceful and relaxing things will be this year. This is the best thing to ever happen for our family.
Another "I hate my in-laws post"! How original OP!
Anonymous
11/19/2021 10:30
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
I felt that way last year. Enjoy!!
Anonymous
11/19/2021 10:28
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
Anonymous wrote:Gush away! And enjoy making new traditions.
Thanks!
I’m especially excited for Christmas Eve. We’ve always spent it with ILs and I’ve always dreamed of making our own traditions with our kids. They aren’t getting any younger and I can’t wait to start making our own memories and traditions!
Anonymous
11/19/2021 10:26
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
Gush away! And enjoy making new traditions.
Anonymous
11/19/2021 10:24
Subject: May I shamelessly gush?!
We moved away from family for a job opportunity earlier this year. This will be the first year we won’t see family for the holidays.
As sad as I am not to see my parents, I’m equal parts or even MORE excited we don’t have to fake our way through the holiday with DH toxic family. Even he has commented on how peaceful and relaxing things will be this year. This is the best thing to ever happen for our family.
As sad as I am not to see my parents, I’m equal parts or even MORE excited we don’t have to fake our way through the holiday with DH toxic family. Even he has commented on how peaceful and relaxing things will be this year. This is the best thing to ever happen for our family.