Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 20:29     Subject: What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Anonymous wrote:This is easy, just ask him and give him all the reasons you stated. Then just watch what happens.


Terrible advice. Cheaters will deny till their last breath. This will just put him on high alert
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 20:28     Subject: Re:What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If it gets to the point that I feel like I can't trust him, I'll just leave. I'm not going to make myself miserable and paranoid, it just isn't worth it.


Sure. And will you pull the kids out of school? How are you going to manage that? Just tell them to pack some toys and a backpack and get in the car?

Why would I take the kids out of school? That seems lile a lot of drama. I can rent a place and move without doing that. I'm perfectly capable of handling my business without traumatizing anyone.
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 20:24     Subject: What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Apparently there's a movement now to "let him cheat in peace."
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 20:21     Subject: Re:What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Anonymous wrote:If it gets to the point that I feel like I can't trust him, I'll just leave. I'm not going to make myself miserable and paranoid, it just isn't worth it.


Sure. And will you pull the kids out of school? How are you going to manage that? Just tell them to pack some toys and a backpack and get in the car?
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 20:21     Subject: Re:What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If it gets to the point that I feel like I can't trust him, I'll just leave. I'm not going to make myself miserable and paranoid, it just isn't worth it.


You would leave before you would just...ask?

If I was that unhappy, the answer wouldn't matter
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 20:18     Subject: Re:What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Anonymous wrote:If it gets to the point that I feel like I can't trust him, I'll just leave. I'm not going to make myself miserable and paranoid, it just isn't worth it.


You would leave before you would just...ask?
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 20:10     Subject: What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
I would ask if he is happy or not in the relationship. I would not bring up you suspect cheating.

If someone is truly unhappy--cheating or not--I would not want to be in the relationship. Life is too short to be miserable or to waste time in an unfulfilling, empty, going-nowhere relationship.
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 19:15     Subject: Re:What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
If it gets to the point that I feel like I can't trust him, I'll just leave. I'm not going to make myself miserable and paranoid, it just isn't worth it.
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 19:11     Subject: What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Smell his breath as he walks in the door. If it smells like fish, there’s your answer.
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 19:09     Subject: Re:What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Check your phone bill for a number he texts/calls frequently. Hire a PI.
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 18:54     Subject: What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
This is easy, just ask him and give him all the reasons you stated. Then just watch what happens.
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 18:52     Subject: Re:What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Drop this in his car and see if he lies about his whereabouts.

https://www.amazon.com/Tile-RE-19001-Mate-1-Pack/dp/B07W9BBCTB

Stop by the office unexpected and see how he reacts.
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 18:49     Subject: Re:What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Follow him at a distance— next time he is “called back into the office”. See if he ends up at a Marriott or a Ho’s house or a parking lot.

If you have “find my phone” on iPhone track him.

Ask to borrow his iPhone (yours is upstairs or out of battery, etc). If he didn’t let you, he’s cheating.
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 18:48     Subject: What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
Anonymous wrote:I don’t have any concrete evidence or a gotcha, but I strongly suspect this based on a lot of factors (e.g lack of interest in sex, lying about insignificant things, out of the blue needing to be back in the office, things just feeling off, always being with his phone). I don’t have a password to his phone, computer, email etc. so not sure what to do now. Thoughts?


Audio recording device in his brief case and office; magnet gps tracker under car
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2021 18:46     Subject: What to do if you suspect your husband is cheating?
I don’t have any concrete evidence or a gotcha, but I strongly suspect this based on a lot of factors (e.g lack of interest in sex, lying about insignificant things, out of the blue needing to be back in the office, things just feeling off, always being with his phone). I don’t have a password to his phone, computer, email etc. so not sure what to do now. Thoughts?