Anonymous wrote:I bet he scratched thing all up and then his dirty mouth bacteria got into the scratched and now you have an infection.

Go to a doctor.

And ditch the boyfriend…the sex is terrible and you aren’t comfortable enough with him to speak up.

This. Teeth????

Anonymous wrote:What kind of a jerk uses his TEETH while going down on you?! WTAF?! 😱 My mind is blown by the idea of that. Like a horror show. He's lucky he didn't do that to me- he would have taken a knee to the face as an involuntary reaction the second his tooth started scraping. What a freaking loser.

I agree. And that he used his teeth to an extent that it actually hurt OP during the act means that he wasn’t just gently nibbling - he was being deliberately rough/biting. Could be he’s an a** or could be cluelessness/too much porn.

What kind of a jerk uses his TEETH while going down on you?! WTAF?! 😱 My mind is blown by the idea of that. Like a horror show. He's lucky he didn't do that to me- he would have taken a knee to the face as an involuntary reaction the second his tooth started scraping. What a freaking loser.

^PISS-poor, not puss-poor, but I guess both fit, haha.

You need to be seen by a doc. In the meantime a bit of A&D ointment might soothe it, or neosporin.

When my DD has a yeast infection while taking antibiotics the ped recommended we leave a cup of 1/4 white vinegar and 3/4 water by the toilet and gently wipe with that every time, but that might irritate you if you have open sores. I would get a mirror and take a look down there so you’re fully aware of what’s going on.

If you felt his teeth then he was nibbling/biting, either as puss-poor technique or because he’s getting off on being a bit rough. But PP is right - if you don’t feel like you can tell him, or say “ouch”, and if he generally reacts poorly in that situation, then you are *not* in a good relationship.

Anonymous wrote:It sounds like he thought oral sex = sucking and chewing on your clitoris. Very ignorant.

I would get in the bathtub with some Epsom salts and soak until you can get checked by your gyno. Try not to wear panties; wear a housedress or something loose.

You can also put an icepack down there. Alternate heat and ice.

A really good suggestion!
Also have a look in a mirror - see what is going on, if it's just general redness this bathing should fix it (you'll need to repeat). But if there are actual lesions you may need an anti-biotic cream.
I don't think you should let this happen again.

It sounds like he thought oral sex = sucking and chewing on your clitoris. Very ignorant.

I would get in the bathtub with some Epsom salts and soak until you can get checked by your gyno. Try not to wear panties; wear a housedress or something loose.

You can also put an icepack down there. Alternate heat and ice.

I cannot even imagine how he could unintentionally hurt you. No sane person injures a woman during oral. Yes go see dr. They have seen it alll. Don’t worry.

Always always speak up if a sex act is painful. If a guy reacts badly to that, you don’t want him anyway.

Go see a doctor. I’m sorry this happened to you.

I bet he scratched thing all up and then his dirty mouth bacteria got into the scratched and now you have an infection.

Go to a doctor.

And ditch the boyfriend…the sex is terrible and you aren’t comfortable enough with him to speak up.

Coconut oil. Use it.

WTF is he doing down there? Why would he use his teeth? 🤢 WTF!!! What an idiot!

Honestly, I say no to receiving oral sex because I find I have a tendency to get infections after and a lot of time the guys do something that irritates me down there.

You should tell him, at least before you have oral sex again with him. Which I wouldn’t frankly. Why is he using his teeth?

Try to get an on gyn appointment stat.

Does it hurt all the time or just when something rubs it or you pee? Can you see any cuts/lacerations?

I’ve had plenty of injuries down there (sex-related, birth-related, hair-removal related). It can take a week or more to heal up. Only thing I can recommend is being gentle and not wiping. Try to wash with water (like with a peri-bottle) and just pat dry.

Hope you heal up quick and find courage to have that awkward conversation with your boyfriend.

I’m in a lot of discomfort/pain. My boyfriend gave me oral sex and it felt like his teeth were scraping against my vagina. It hurt at the time but (and this is a problem, I know) I am too “polite” to tell him. It has been 4 days and the pain is getting worse. It seems like I’m going to have to see a doctor but has anyone been through this and have any advice on how to treat it myself? Im really hoping we can keep this thread up - i really need some help. Thanks in advance to any of you who can help.