Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids

Exactly this

Also, if my wife slept with the nanny, I would embark on the epic revenge affair tour.

NO!

Never.

I’m female and we have a male nanny. He’s kind of cute. DH has never worried and he has no reason to. Even if the nanny were totally my type, I take my vows very seriously and would never wreck our marriage or hurt DH by cheating.

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Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids

As the world changes, women are attracted to men who are in touch with their feminine side. Doesn’t mean he is feminine. But a nurturing, caring man is pretty hot especially if you aren’t getting that at home.

Yes! I think my sisters and I were even more attracted to the manny because he was SO GOOD with the kids. He would run around after them and play with them and be really gentle and you could just tell this kids loved and trusted him. He was very patient with them and just seemed so mature. It's very attractive. I assume men feel the same attraction when they see a very sweet woman who's amazing with kids, that's why "kindergarten teacher" is always a profession you see as the love interest of men in movies. It's something very primal. He was so sweet and good with them, and that combined with him being ripped, and always running around shirtless showing off his abs, was a lethal combination! We could never understand why the husband allowed him to be hired, he was so sexy.

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids

As the world changes, women are attracted to men who are in touch with their feminine side. Doesn’t mean he is feminine. But a nurturing, caring man is pretty hot especially if you aren’t getting that at home.

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Anonymous wrote:There was a super hot male nanny who worked next to door to my family when I was in my late teens/early 20s. My sisters and I used to sunbathe in our bikinis in our yard hoping he would notice us, as well as watching him from the second floor windows checking him out as he would play with the kids in their yard, sometimes shirtless. He was so attractive, looked like a model. If I was the wife, I definitely would have been flirting with him. We never actually got to speak to him as both our houses were fairly large and we werent friendly with the neighbors but he would smile at us and I think he knew we had crushes on him.

Probably gay.

No, he had a girlfriend, think she was mid 20s. We thought we were probably too young for him. But we had a lot of fun checking him out! 🤣

Anonymous wrote:There was a super hot male nanny who worked next to door to my family when I was in my late teens/early 20s. My sisters and I used to sunbathe in our bikinis in our yard hoping he would notice us, as well as watching him from the second floor windows checking him out as he would play with the kids in their yard, sometimes shirtless. He was so attractive, looked like a model. If I was the wife, I definitely would have been flirting with him. We never actually got to speak to him as both our houses were fairly large and we werent friendly with the neighbors but he would smile at us and I think he knew we had crushes on him.

Probably gay.

There was a super hot male nanny who worked next to door to my family when I was in my late teens/early 20s. My sisters and I used to sunbathe in our bikinis in our yard hoping he would notice us, as well as watching him from the second floor windows checking him out as he would play with the kids in their yard, sometimes shirtless. He was so attractive, looked like a model. If I was the wife, I definitely would have been flirting with him. We never actually got to speak to him as both our houses were fairly large and we werent friendly with the neighbors but he would smile at us and I think he knew we had crushes on him.

I wouldn’t care. DW would have some eye candy to get her in the mood everyday, she wouldn’t cheat so I get the benefit.

She already fantasizes about famous attractive men.

Attractive male nannies don’t exist. Male nannies of any kind are rare, as are male preschool teachers, male NICU/OB nurses. In general, most men don’t want enjoy young children that are theirs (or something even theirs) that much.

It depends. Is he a bottom?

No I would not.

I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids

Seems DCUM won't have an attractive young woman in her house. What do you guys think?

For my own part, I don't even really recognize which men are/are not attractive. What do you think? Are you obsessed with jealousy?