Anonymous wrote:OMG
Get some help, OP, seriously. Get yourself checked for PPD and general anxiety.
Just wow.
The flapping can a signal for being on the spectrum. It's not crazy that she's concerned about this.
OP, my 7 year old son flaps and he has for a long time. I can't remember when it started. But it's only a concern if it's paired with a bunch of other stuff. Here's a link to his official "diagnosis".
https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/neurology_neurosurgery/centers_clinics/pediatric-neurology/conditions/motor-stereotypies/
FWIW he's a totally normal kid with a lot of friends and it's nothing I even think about.
It's worth keeping an eye on, but there truly is no reason to panic at this point.