Anonymous wrote:When my dd was born, she “gave” her brother (age 4.5) four Justice League figures. Maybe I spent $10 on the set. Best gift ever.
Pick something that she would love and shows that her new sibling “gets” her. Doesn’t have to be even close to $100 or beautiful.
Totally this. DS "gave" his big sister a small toy she'd been wanting for a while. I think it was $15. Your 4 y.o. isn't going to care about something beautiful. Your 14 y.o. is going to know it wasn't a gift from the newborn, so any sentimentality won't matter.