Anonymous
10/27/2021 21:10
Subject: Re:If you’ve been married 20+ years
Sexless last three years. Went from 2x a month, then once a month and now, gone
Horrible, it destroys your sense of self and any desire to grow old together.
I deal with it by taking care of myself and doing the math on how I can afford to leave and not totally disrupt my kids future
Horrible, it destroys your sense of self and any desire to grow old together.
I deal with it by taking care of myself and doing the math on how I can afford to leave and not totally disrupt my kids future
Anonymous
10/27/2021 21:09
Subject: If you’ve been married 20+ years
32 years of marriage. Raising kids. Couldn’t have done it without my dear wife
Anonymous
10/27/2021 21:08
Subject: Re:If you’ve been married 20+ years
Anonymous wrote:Year 20. Infidelity. I never saw it coming. Completely blindsided.
He met a woman on AM that you have trashed here for two years?
Anonymous
10/27/2021 21:05
Subject: If you’ve been married 20+ years
Parenting teenagers.
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:43
Subject: Re:If you’ve been married 20+ years
Year 20. Infidelity. I never saw it coming. Completely blindsided.
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:35
Subject: Re:If you’ve been married 20+ years
Anonymous wrote:I’m only at 15 years, but we have one kid with profound autism/intellectual disability and the other kid had brain cancer. I sincerely hope things never get worse than that. Brain cancer kid is fine now — knock on wood.
Oh, I think we have handled it pretty damn well.
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:34
Subject: Re:If you’ve been married 20+ years
I’m only at 15 years, but we have one kid with profound autism/intellectual disability and the other kid had brain cancer. I sincerely hope things never get worse than that. Brain cancer kid is fine now — knock on wood.
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:32
Subject: If you’ve been married 20+ years
Workaholic spouse
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:30
Subject: If you’ve been married 20+ years
Those 5-10 years when my spouse lost interest in sex. I waited until the last kid graduated from HS and then I moved on. We're friends though, he was good at that.
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:26
Subject: If you’ve been married 20+ years
First year of living together, dealing with MIL, dealing with spouse's depression/anger, first year of kid. sorry that's not one.
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:23
Subject: Re:If you’ve been married 20+ years
Extreme interference by MIL.
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:19
Subject: If you’ve been married 20+ years
Married 31. 1st year of empty nest was really hard to find ways to reconnect. Also my “mom role” changes drastically.
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:17
Subject: If you’ve been married 20+ years
First year of first kid. Yes.
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:16
Subject: If you’ve been married 20+ years
DH falls asleep at 8:30.
Send him to bed.
Send him to bed.
Anonymous
10/27/2021 20:00
Subject: If you’ve been married 20+ years
What’s the hardest thing you’ve dealt with in your marriage?
Were you able to deal with it, and if so how?
Were you able to deal with it, and if so how?