Anonymous wrote:We all choose how we spend $$. If you want to put it towards a house (car/trip/whatever) then college choices are limited to what the family can manage. There is nothing special about housing choices. If contributing to college is not a priority, it is totally fine, but don't expect the college to handle it for you.
Anonymous wrote:How much are students vs parents expected to contribute? FWIW my parents paid $0. My wealthy father wasn’t factored into financial aid bc he contributed nothing to college or much else for that matter except my step mom and step kids. Mom took out a small loan which I paid back within 2 years of graduating. All the rest was me (loans, work study and summer jobs), scholarships and a little financial aid.
I know times are different but there must still be a line item on financial aid that separates parent versus student financial contributions.
Anonymous wrote:How much are students vs parents expected to contribute? FWIW my parents paid $0. My wealthy father wasn’t factored into financial aid bc he contributed nothing to college or much else for that matter except my step mom and step kids. Mom took out a small loan which I paid back within 2 years of graduating. All the rest was me (loans, work study and summer jobs), scholarships and a little financial aid.
I know times are different but there must still be a line item on financial aid that separates parent versus student financial contributions.
Anonymous wrote:
CSS schools can consider home equity and retirement accounts, the logic being that if you paid into both aggressively while not saving for school, that is a choice you made and you shouldn't be rewarded.
i agree that paying for college sucks, but financial aid is not for people with expensive houses and big retirement accounts. save for college or choose a less expensive way to get a college degree, i.e. dual credit, CC and then transfer to a local or nearby public U.
Anonymous wrote:I don't understand the reasoning behind using home value. Is the idea that the parents should remortgage the house to pay for school? For many people living in high COL places, house equity is part of their retirement nest egg. I'd love to have enough money to both pay a ridiculously high mortgage payment AND max out my retirement savings, but I can't. I plan to retire to my hometown where I can easily buy a low cost house there with the equity I'll walk away with after I sell my DC house. If I have to remortgage it, then I won't be able to buy a house when I retire. From what I understand, if that money were tied up in a retirement account, it would be untouchable and schools wouldn't consider it as available for college expenses. Is that right?
And what about savings accounts? Aren't we supposed to have three months of living expenses sitting in a savings account? That's a lot of money for people with high mortgages like many of us in DC or for those of us with medical issues. Is the fact that we squirreled those funds away in case of job loss (single mom here) going to be used against us for need-based financial aid?