Anonymous wrote:Perhaps a distraction, but: are people who say this is silly reacting to the potluck or the Indian? I would be surprised to find a dinner party was unexpectedly potluck (though I enjoy potlucks), but if I were doing a theme potluck, Indian would be one of the first things I considered. Am I weird? I assume most of my friends who cook, cook Indian sometimes! (I’m ethnically Ashkenazi, as are most of my cookingest friends.) Doesn’t everyone have cumin, coriander, turmeric, and cayenne on hand? Or do I exist in a weird foodie bubble?
I do cool Indian but I think themed potlucks are over the top. You either control the menu by cooking yourself, or you ask people to bring what they choose and eat what shows up. I find overly specific potluck requests a bit demanding. (Yes, I also hate "bring a book as a card" baby showers, weddings where guests are told to dress in certain colors, etc.)