Anonymous wrote:The coaches for the Red/White/Blue u9/u10 teams at Alexandria are great (I can't speak to the other teams as the coaches are new). They also stick with the team for 2 years before transitioning to a new coach at u11. It is always a stark difference between their coaching style and other teams we have played where the coaches are constantly screaming. It might be a bit far from Vienna though.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have multiple kids in various sports and while our oldest is doing well and enjoying his travel soccer team, our younger son is on a U9 team in the same club and having a not-so-great experience. He thrives based on encouragement and so far, the coaching has been extremely impersonal. It’s also clear that the coach plays favorites, but we expected that. We don’t put too much stake in it all at this age and don’t need anything super intense, but also recognize that these are formative years in a sport that he considers his favorite. Are there any U9 travel teams in the area you’ve had a positive experience with? A coach that wants to actually form a relationship and help the kids grow without too many politics?
I assume your DS is at McLean, hence the issues. If you are not at McLean, then steer clear. Having already experienced the boys program at McLean U9-U12 I can confidently say they do not develop their talent and have poor coaches at that age group. Politics, favorites, yelling, belittling, you name it. I'd go to VYS at that age before McLean. Another option, which seems to match what you are looking for is Premier AC in Falls Church. That age group practices at Luther Jackson MS in Merrifield. The coaches are very supportive and move up with the team sometimes all the way. It's a smaller club and other coaches will get to know your son so it's a more personable experience.
Anonymous wrote:In that age from Vienna I would go to mclean. I would avoid Vienna, even though it may look appealing for the convenience. McLean gives a decent blend of convenience, several levels of play, better coaching, and typically a good development plan. Arlington is likely too far from Vienna at this age. Great Falls/Reston is a little farther than McLean but hit or miss on coaching and don’t have the same depth for appropriate levels of play. I wouldn’t bother with FPYC or BRYC.
Anonymous wrote:We have multiple kids in various sports and while our oldest is doing well and enjoying his travel soccer team, our younger son is on a U9 team in the same club and having a not-so-great experience. He thrives based on encouragement and so far, the coaching has been extremely impersonal. It’s also clear that the coach plays favorites, but we expected that. We don’t put too much stake in it all at this age and don’t need anything super intense, but also recognize that these are formative years in a sport that he considers his favorite. Are there any U9 travel teams in the area you’ve had a positive experience with? A coach that wants to actually form a relationship and help the kids grow without too many politics?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sorry, didn’t think to include that - were in Vienna (but our club is not VYS)
Look at the non-ECNL/MLS next team clubs. They may provide better development. You should expect to have a new coach every two years. That way your kid sees different ways to play the game. Also, if you're not happy with the coach they change every two years.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have multiple kids in various sports and while our oldest is doing well and enjoying his travel soccer team, our younger son is on a U9 team in the same club and having a not-so-great experience. He thrives based on encouragement and so far, the coaching has been extremely impersonal. It’s also clear that the coach plays favorites, but we expected that. We don’t put too much stake in it all at this age and don’t need anything super intense, but also recognize that these are formative years in a sport that he considers his favorite. Are there any U9 travel teams in the area you’ve had a positive experience with? A coach that wants to actually form a relationship and help the kids grow without too many politics?
Most clubs' coaches at younger age levels don't age up with the kids, so if you want a team that might offer a chance to build a long-term relationship with the coach (and his teammates), you might need to seek out parent-led travel teams and/or you should beging asking clubs about the longevity of their coaching staff and how long coaches stay with their groups (e.g. 1 year, 2, 3, until they graduate).
Anonymous wrote:Sorry, didn’t think to include that - were in Vienna (but our club is not VYS)
Anonymous wrote:We have multiple kids in various sports and while our oldest is doing well and enjoying his travel soccer team, our younger son is on a U9 team in the same club and having a not-so-great experience. He thrives based on encouragement and so far, the coaching has been extremely impersonal. It’s also clear that the coach plays favorites, but we expected that. We don’t put too much stake in it all at this age and don’t need anything super intense, but also recognize that these are formative years in a sport that he considers his favorite. Are there any U9 travel teams in the area you’ve had a positive experience with? A coach that wants to actually form a relationship and help the kids grow without too many politics?
Anonymous wrote:We have multiple kids in various sports and while our oldest is doing well and enjoying his travel soccer team, our younger son is on a U9 team in the same club and having a not-so-great experience. He thrives based on encouragement and so far, the coaching has been extremely impersonal. It’s also clear that the coach plays favorites, but we expected that. We don’t put too much stake in it all at this age and don’t need anything super intense, but also recognize that these are formative years in a sport that he considers his favorite. Are there any U9 travel teams in the area you’ve had a positive experience with? A coach that wants to actually form a relationship and help the kids grow without too many politics?