Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is his hobby and how much does he do it? How will it affect his life satisfaction and, by extension your relationship, if you limit it?
I don't want to ID myself but basically large scale crafts, including woodworking and airbrush painting. He has a bunch of tools, supplies, preliminary attempts that he doesn't throw out, parts he might use later, etc. Yes, he loves it and yes limiting it affects our relationship. But, left unchecked it is bad for our family -- with him home during pandemic he came close to losing his job because he kept popping into the basement to do something).