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A *married* woman who stays at home is not a "kept" woman.  SAHMs are not akin to prostitutes.  In your view both spouses must work and bring in money or they are not valuable.  That's your opinion, that's your marriage, that's YOU.  Just realize that in plenty of other marriages it works best for one spouse to SAH and it is a team decision for the spouse to SAH.

The underhanded, secret arrangement that the Op has with her married boyfriend is NOT the same thing. No way, no how.  Why an intelligent, educated person can not seem to get that is beyond me.[/quote]

And it is a "team decision" that OP and the guy supporting her have made that she will SAH and be available to him when he has the time and inclination. Also, just for the record, OP has said that they both spend time together sometimes for several days at a time when presumably they are not copulating non-stop. So they must see in each other something they gain beyond just sex.

A married woman who merely stays at home is a "kept" woman because her husband is supporting her. It may be an arrangement that both people are fine with - and more power to them - but that is no different than the arrangement that OP has with her benefactor.

You want to sanctify the relationship that the married woman by virtue of her marriage and that is fine. But it does not change the reality that she is also a "kept" woman in that all of her financial needs are met by her husband.[/quote]

Your equating a married woman to a paramour.  You are confused.

What the Op has with this married man is more akin to a lap dance or a trip to a sleazy massage parlor where a wanted service is rendered in a dark and secret way.  You may not see it that way, but oh well. It is what it is.  A service provider and her customer are not a "team".  If that is the way it is in your marriage...I'm sorry.  No way is it like that in mine.[/quote]

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