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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In a lot of cases it is opportunity + feeling deserving + thinking nobody will find out.

I had a husband who was the picture of a family man and claimed to be happy with me, and he got drunk and slept with a colleague during a company outing. Claims it was not premeditated or planned, just a dumb decision in the moment. There was no intention in telling the spouses. But then it was all discovered, both lost their jobs, and her husband and I divorced them.

The wounds from their selfish choices are something I will have to deal with for the rest of my life and who knows how all of this will impact the six kids our families have between us who now have to live with the repercussions of one of their parents making terrible decisions that stole their stability and ripped apart their families. [/quote]
Curious what made you divorce if it was a one-off mistake and you have kids? Did you entertain the idea of staying?[/quote]

My spouse had cheated before and wasted the second chance offered to him after loads of counseling and marital therapy. Wasn’t getting a third chance and he knew it. Don’t think it was his AP’s first rodeo either. They stayed together a little longer from my understanding. [/quote]

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