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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's so hard on all sides. I had a no kids wedding, simply because I have a ton of cousins and they all have multiple children. It would have just been insane and added huge cost for kids I didn't even know. I made exception for babies though, nbd.

That said, my closest friend from college had a no *babies* wedding. Young kids were allowed and would be watched in a separate area by a few nannies. My baby had severe reflux, so needed to nurse very often to keep weight up. The wedding was in a city where I don't know anyone who wouldn't have been at the reception. My friend and her fiancé, knowing all of this, instead of inviting us to have the baby at the wedding suggested we "just look for a local babysitter on care.com" and have them stay at a nearby hotel. We politely opted out of attending. She has not talked to me since because she felt slighted that I wouldn't make this sacrifice for her.[/quote]

So you learned she is not really a good friend and now you can move on with life.  That is all on her.

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