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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's fascinating the way that posters here can't allow any shred of humanity or complexity for this woman. Is it possible she was abused and that's a factor here? Is it possible bipolar or organic MS mania is a factor? [i]No no of course not she's simply evil![/i]

She can be complex and bad at the same time, guys. It doesn't have to be black and white. It sounds like she was struggling with mental and physical health issues that exacerbating some underlying paraphilias. It's not an excuse.

For me personally, I need help explaining how a seemingly normal woman broke bad in such a serious manner. Additionally, sex offenders are often very normal people who lead very normal lives. Unpacking the complexities helps process what happened and prevent it in the future.

So stop being so incredibly defensive about it. [/quote]

+1 Thank you.[/quote]

Obviously neither of you read what she said and really consider she brought handcuffs and a silk robe for a fun Daddy's night for an 8 year old, or you're both sick. Abusers, whether victims or not, make the choice to abuse and there is never an excuse.[/quote]

+100 who are those people even asking for compassion or empathy for her. Wake up and stop making excuses. [/quote]

Understanding FACTS is not asking for compassion or empathy for her, that goes to the child victims.

Paraphilias are linked to abuse, to mania (bipolar or caused by other health conditions) and to porn and sex addiction. Knowing that allows interventions.

For the priest poster, a lot of them are recreating trauma they experienced too, it is compulsive for some. Not an excuse but a reality that needs to be acknowledged so it can be addressed. Some who are csa survivors do not have conscious memories until very late in life, it's complicated.

Porn and the normalizing of deviance and hypersexuality and to an extent, sex addiction just amplifies it all and minimizes red flags at times for too long. [/quote]

+1 [/quote]

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