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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm asexual[/quote]
What does that mean exactly?[/quote]

I grew up in a small town and married a guy I love. I'm not aromantic, I genuinely did fall in love, and still am in love with my husband. After a few years of having no interest in sex and finding it a bit repulsive, with no interest in being sexually touched, I figured it was just the usual "getting to know my body" stuff. Then I had a few years of thinking possibly I was lesbian, and finally came to realize that I'm just not sexually attracted to people. My husband has had other sexual partners, which I okayed (no need to ask further questions about that.) Basically, I don't like sexual contact. It's not obvious or anything, and I masturbate occasionally (don't know why I have no problem with that. Confuses me somewhat, still) It really isn't a big deal in my life, and I think it's more common than it seems. I can't quite define it, but I don't really mind it. Just is.[/quote]

I have a few serious questions to ask you.
Where you ever sexually abused?  
Did you grow up in a strict and religious household that viewed sex as repulsive?  
Do you think that you and your husband were never sexually compatible?
Have you ever had sex with another person to see if you like it or not?   The reason I ask this is because you seem to have no problem with masturbating.  So, I wouldn't say that you're asexual.  You don't seem to like sex with your husband. Do you think that his technique just doesn't do it for you or are you just repulsive about the act of sex itself?   [/quote]

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