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Much more logical to me than some of the emotional affairs of some DCUM posters.[/quote]

I actually completely agree, but I don't think it would work around here in a widespread sort of way. It requires at least passive consent and buy in from the wife, which I do not think would happen here. It also indicates that there is a social function that a wife does not and is not obligated to fulfill. It also implies that a man who chooses to support a mistress that way has and will not shirk his obligations to his legal family, and also that he will treat the mistress with respect - so not abusive or cruel, helping with medical expenses caused by him (such as accidental pregnancies, birth control, etc.), and the like.

It's an agreement that requires an acceptance of a more flexible understanding of romantic adult relationships, which is unlikely to happen as long as you have people like the PPs shrieking about how it's impossible to respect anyone who has an affair, ever, for the rest of forever.[/quote]

I think we can all agree that at least some wives on DCUM would prefer a sexless (sex-free?) marriage. They have the HHI to be SAHMs, yet afford to outsource any number of undesirable duties normally done by wives and mothers. Some women in the US don't have fertility issues, but use gestational carriers from India to avoid weight gain, morning sickness, etc. What if these women would actually be relieved if DH scratched his itch elsewhere, but they have to pretend outrage for the same of others?
To be fair, there are some husbands who'd be thrilled if the pool guy serviced their wives and left her in a good mood before he arrived home from work.
Sex is cheaper than therapy when it isn't attached to a $33k a year apartment, but even that is cheaper than divorce and alimony or child support.[/quote]

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