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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are often rational actors.  The marriage is bad, no sex for example.  The cost of divorce might be hight--financial and loosing custody of the kids.  By cheating they can have their cake and eat it too.

If it works out they win.  If it doesn't, they are no worse off than if they just got divorced.[/quote]

Except that’s not true for most men.  They don’t want a divorce.  They often are still having sex at home, but her greedy and want some variety as they face down middle age.  They get caught and life implodes and they cause great hurt to those they love.  They seriously fk up a good thing.[/quote]

It wasn’t such a good thing for him. There is no delusion greater than that of the 3 DCUM betrayed wives who didn’t leave despite “having the great job and insurance we rely on,” who were having “great sex multiple times a week,” who of course are far far hotter than the slut he found plus no doubt 99% of all women —— and then, record scratch, this Adonis hero dad and DH bafflingly started acting like the whore he is. Just give it up! You’re wrong, you never knew him fully, and if he was patiently plotting and scheduling times to screw for YEARS, even with “no feelings,” his feelings for YOU were full of contempt. You choose to stay, because you have no dignity and want to be the victim til you croak. And now you are a victim by your own compliance with his lies. Just be honest here for once.[/quote]

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