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DH and I are expecting our first and I'm very worried about my tendency to try to control everything.  He's a very competent and loving person so I know I'm going to need to put in a ton of work to let him parent and not try to take over everything.  I'm hoping the fact that DH will be taking 6 weeks of leave once I go back to work will help the both of us.  He'll be more confident and I'll have proof every day that yes, my kind, loving, smart DH is in fact capable of keeping our child alive and I should back off.  Fingers crossed![/quote]

With our first two kids my wife wouldn't let me do anything and I mean anything for them until she got her fill. As a result I never really bonded with them.... even after 8 years I just don't like them very much. I'm not sure that would have changed things but for our third child I basically just took over, I do as much as I can for her (diapers, feeding, lettering her fall asleep in my arms) and I can already tell I'm bonding much better.

I'm not saying that he will would be the same way as I am but it's something to be aware of.

and get as much sleep as you can whenever you can you will need it.

You don't like your own children are you're blaming your wife?  You have serious issues.

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