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[quote=Anonymous]Hope we hear from OP as to what is happening.   My husband started working with a younger woman and began talking about her constantly at night.   I wish I had done something right away.   We live an hour from his job and it was too difficult to come down for lunch.
He should have had me come down to meet her.  Instead they had lunches.  At one point he stayed overnight at her house when the weather was bad !  Her husband was there but they later divorced.
He emailed her constantly all weekend and traveled with her on a trip without telling me.  
Now it is 4 years later and he is out of the fog.  It was sort of a midlife crisis.  She was not really interested in him, but he pursued her that was very similar to when we first met.
All I can say is, forbid lunches and confront quickly.   I wish I had been more aggressive on confronting.   DH later admitted to me he had been totally infatuated with this person and was sorry he hurt me.   But things can never be the same.[/quote]

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