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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At what point do you continue to blame the man (who, for her, might suck in bed) if the woman who obviously KNOWS  that he sucks in bed (for her) but STILL she goes ahead and marries him?

Better for both of them to find a compatible partner. Maybe he really does suck in bed and there is no partner for him. Or maybe one woman's version of "he suck in bed" is actually good sex.

But in no case should a couple EVER marry where the woman believes "he sucks in bed".  So I just don't see how this can be such a popular justistification for her libido loss.
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I think sex changes after marriage. It goes from lying in bed for hours watching bad tv with lots of affection and eventual sex.

We have 20 minutes before nap time is over can you quickly, easily get the job done.

Also the 20 yo body with no artificial hormones can o easily but the pill, SSRIs, fatigue, etc can affect the woman's ability to easily and predictably have an O.

Many men will be like... I didn't change you did so you fix it.
[b]Good, caring and loving partners will read, experiment and gently find new ways to satisfy their partners. (Adaptable marriages)
[/b]Sometime both partners are at a loss, embarrassed to go to a somebody to learn to have sex... It should be natural right?

You realize there are some people that still don't have vibrators are too grossed out to have sex during their period, etc... There is a lot of people that have not evolved sexually.

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Guy here with a few young kids and a very active married sex life, and I totally agree with this, esp. the bolded part.  It takes both wanting to make it work for the other, and not blaming or shaming the other.  But that pretty goes for most things in marriage - not just sex.  You can't keep score and have a happy marriage.[/quote]

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