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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Talk about bad advice. Whatever you do, don't have an affair. The PP who thinks everything's turned out so happy is living a lie after two affairs, and if his wife found out, he'd be crying about her divorcing him. A marriage based on lies is not a strong marriage.[/quote] What a crock. A marriage based on no sex is not a strong marriage either. Had he NOT had those affairs, then surely they would already be divorced. Sounds like a happy ending to a common story to me.[/quote] How arrogant. Many of us would rather be divorced than live a lie like fools because our partner made the unilateral decision, without telling us or giving us a choice, that our marriage was no longer monogamous. [/quote] If you aren't having sex with your spouse, do not be surprised when said spouse goes outside the marriage to find sex. This is not rocket science and it would be pretty arrogant of his wife to then play the cheated-on victim card. She has already cast her vote on the marriage, that was her choice. But listen to this: if (when) he does cheat, they still have a [b]monogamous[/b] marriage! The word "monogamous" means sex with one person, that just happens to not be the spouse (who doesn't want it anyway).[/quote]
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