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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with everything you said with one exception.  #1 isn't sacrificing anything.  They are not making a choice to give something up.  Only #2 is expected to do that.[/quote]
#1 is already living in "Manassas" (or equivalent), drives a junker, and has no $$ for tennis lessons.[/quote]

And #1 has provided a stable environment for their child so they are capable of pursuing a top-level education.  As has #2.  Neither #1 or #2 may have any $$$ left at the end of each month.  But only #2 is forced to make a sacrifice.[/quote]

You know, you are welcome to take a lower paying job or move to a different city if you feel so wronged. Also, you could move to PG County or SE DC and still be in close commuting range for a much smaller mortgage. [/quote]

You've made my point.  Only #2 is being asked to make a sacrifice.[/quote]

So should #1 move to a cardboard box?[/quote]

Are you suggesting that #1 has no discretionary income, particularly if they live in a place where the cost of living is low?  In this example, I'm not suggesting that #1 is at poverty level.[/quote]
We know a family living in the Midwest. The husband had a job in IT with pay alot lower than around here, and wife decided to "stay at home for the kids". The older kid got a scholarship to a good local private HS, did very well, got admitted into a Top-50 school, also private, and received financial aid. The younger kid went to the state flagship. I don't know if there is fin aid involved.
My kids, from a 2 income family, went to FCPS and the older one did not even consider private colleges. This was partly because we could not justify paying for private given the quality of VA schools (this kid was not Ivy material). Still, it rankled that I had to bust my a$$ at work while this woman sat on hers all those years, and the outcomes are similar.[/quote]

+1.  Exactly.  In this scenario, you are the only one expected to make a sacrifice....and you'll get the holier-than-thou for thinking otherwise.[/quote]

So obviously you should have stayed at home as well. You would have had a lower HHI and reaped the financial aid benefits. For some reason, though, you decided it was worth it to keep working. Why was that? Presumably you received some benefit for doing so that you wouldn't have otherwise. [/quote]

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