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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would guess many of you know quite a few couples who, if not APs, were at least uncomfortably close to it and are now totally happy couples with nice families. I mean, it's not like people are going to go around talking about it or laying it all out there. Not even necessarily out of shame but just because the genesis of a decade+ long relationship with children is really not relevant to anything going on right now. So, you can believe that all of these relationships crash and burn horribly with terrible outcomes for all involved, but especially the ones who chose to leave their spouses for each other, but I would bet there's a rather sizable but quiet population of well-functioning couples who were in this situation.[/quote]

Well if one of them has children from before the current marriage, it becomes obvious whether there was infidelity or not by the way they talk about things. You may not know for sure but you know if it's a possibility. So overall I disagree with what you're saying.[/quote]

I'm not sure what you mean. I know people with stepkids and could tell you zero about when or where or how their relationship started.[/quote]

If two people are in a second marriage, that means it's possible one or both of them were an AP. If you know them socially, like at all, you have an idea of how strong that possibility is.
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Well gee what an amazing idea - you DON'T know much about other people's relationships. But please by all means, feel free to judge. [/quote]

Who's judging? Knowing that two people might have had an affair is not judging them.[/quote]

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