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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So OP, leave her alone and let her deal with her own mess. She is not part of your (or your family's) "family goals" anymore. It sounds like she is choosing her boyfriend's family instead, and there is nothing you can do about it. She's found a rich white boyfriend and is apparently trying to make it work and cut everyone else off. Her choice, not yours. Don't keep forgiving her behavior, just walk away and move on. If she wants you in her life, she will contact you.

Go pursue your own career, your own family, your own social life that has nothing to do with your sister. [/quote]

I am finally realizing that I should cut her off the way she has cut me off and doing so won't mean I am not a bad person. I have hesitated to completely cut off contact and try to reach out to her only because as her family it feels wrong to abandon my little sister when we are all alone in a foreign land. I was able to get her to see me three times so far, and each time she has hurled a myriad of insults on me accusing me of being the cause of every ill wind that has come her way. I am sick of being made to feel like a monster for not immediately jumping for joy at the news of her new relationship; for cautioning her to be more ambitious; for reminding her to not worry so much about superficial things such as minor pimples. I am NOT a monster. I was trying to do the right thing and as her older sister try to gently nudge her in a more productive direction.

I think I will walk away now and leave her be with her mess of a life.[/quote]

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