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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP.

I just wanted to take a moment to sincerely thank everyone for their (mostly thoughtful) responses. Some of the accusations hurled at me have been as vile as the narrative my sister throws on me. My sister has resented my presence in her life since the day we moved in together. We were fundamentally different people who were at first temporarily thrust together so that we can accomplish our larger family goals. I don't think she has necessarily been more "independent" as some posters suggest. She just now thinks her family, culture and values she grew up with are "crazy." She deeply resents me for being the one remaining symbol of her life and family before this boy. As someone who always bemoaned her connection to our family, she sure has surprisingly gone out of her way to endear herself to her boyfriends friends and family. I have never seen a more eager and enthusiastic participant in the delicate dance of integrating into her boyfriends family and social circle.

For those accusing me of "abusing" my sister and saying she needs a restraining order against me, shame on you!

The only reason I have repeatedly tried to get in touch with her is because she is my sister. She has no family here except for me. She does not have a full time job.  She has no money and her immigration status is a mess. Despite all of this, she has started an active campaign to cut me out of her life and push me away because I hesitated to accept her wonderful new rich white boyfriend. I did not sleep with her husband, I did not run over her puppy with my car, I keep forgiving her nasty behavior towards me so she doesn't feel alone due to her self imposed isolation and do something worse.

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OP she is not alone. Snake if her boyfriend breaks up with her she would be in a bad situation...[/quote]

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