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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP,

I read most of this thread and some of the other threads people linked to.

The bottom line to me is: you are much more invested into your sister and your relationship than she is. She just does not care about you (or the rest of your family) as much as you do.

You also seem kinda of opposites: she is beautiful but superficial and lacking ambition; you are more thoughtful, serious (your posts are very well written and interesting) but not very attractive. That creates its on unhealthy dynamic.

I disagree with those who think your comments were truly controlling etc. if your relationship were better balanced she would never remember those, she would not (and could not) cut you off and lash out on you so easily.

But it's like you are the pursuer and she is pursued and she also pursued by men and other people, while you are not. That makes you isolated and overly focused on your sister. You can't make her love you back. You need to focus on the rest of your life. Good luck![/quote]

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