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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG!  People are coming up with every reason in the world of unlikely rare scenarios as to why the guy IS paying $3500 a month, for one child, since infancy, who he hasn't seen in years.  Go ahead and believe what you want to believe OP, you are getting a reality check here from people who know. What he is telling you is a lie. Believe it if you want to believe it, but you are willfully ignoring huge red flags.

I ignored a major red flag item of my then-fiance. Not even remotely NEAR what you are seeing here.  One of those things where I was like wow, this is a great guy but he has some moral shortcomings?  20 years later, guess what he is?  A dead beat dad.  And in my heart, I had evidence he wasn't a good guy.  I believed what I wanted to believe and I am paying the price. [/quote]

It would be a pretty stupid thing to lie about since it's so easily verifiable.  Which, is exactly why it's really not worth wasting a ton of bandwidth over because all OP has to do is ask to see the cancelled checks and she'll know.  If he can show a few months worth of cancelled checks then that part is resolved.  [/quote]

It's really not verifiable. If he doesn't show her checks, she can't check anywhere else. And he can always say "We've only been dating 4 months, I don't feel comfortable discussing the ins and outs of child support and showing you my financials." After that her hands are tied.[/quote]

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