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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Something else is going on here.

Did having kids take a toll on your marriage and romantic relationship?  Is she upset about you or something else?

Sex is psychological for women, not mechanical.  How can you romance her brain?  Listen, empathize, let her have a girls weekend away, slow track increased romance/date nights. Conversate about travel, restaurants, books, charity events -- not office work or family.  Plan a trip to look fw to.

It will take time. [/quote]

OP here-Thanks, have done all of this.  Kids take a toll for sure, and have scaled expectations to really almost no expectations at all.  i don't think she is upset with me, we get along good in all other aspects of our marriage except for sex.  She is fine with that and happy with the way things are.  Its not even about the sex really for me at this point, its more about feeling like I have a lover and romantic partner, not just a woman that I live with, that is the real problem. [/quote]

Here's something I don't get: you say you've been married for 3 years, and that you have kidS.  So...the math says you have two very young children had pretty much back-to-back.  If your wife works with two little kids, I can only imagine the degree of exhaustion that comes with this. [/quote]

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