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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]  [b]I try to keep it going at home, but her response is "you are supposed to find me attractive and say nice things, you are my husband."  And yes, she is probably ripe for some mid-life affair, which would be nice to avoid, obviously.
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What did you think of a PP's idea to create the conditions of a new affair with her? To revive your relationship and get her over this transition. Whisk her away for adult only weekends, go out on dates more often (at least once a week), shower her with gifts like you would someone you were courting, do the things SHE wants to do, have drunk vacation sex, etc. I personally liked that idea, I wish my husband was posting on here and got that advice, lol.
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The fact that she's so dismissive of her husband's compliments as something he has to do suggests that the kind of validation she's seeking can't come from him. Which probably means that she'd blow him off if he tried to create the conditions of an affair with her. [/quote]

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