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Reply to "Wife having mid-life crisis and not sure how to respond"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] A lot of people won't or can't learn except through their own experience. We can tell her till she's blue in the face that an affair won't help BUT that's not going to stop most women in this position. She's insecure and hurting and probably feeling her mortality in a real way for the first time. The passion and excitement of a new affair will feel like it's reviving her and make her feel young again. That's why people do it. That's why it's a cliche! [b]Affairs do make things worse but they also have a way of clearing the decks and making you seeing reality clearly again.[/b] If a couple can hold on through the worst of it, their marriages typically emerge even stronger than before.[/quote] A cheating spouse should make you see this reality: they do not love you or respect you, and you should get them out of your life pronto. Yes, an affair should clear the decks... of the person who cheated on you. [/quote]
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