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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I might be the oddball out of the PPs...

Don't you think your husband deserves the decency to at least know why you filed for divorce? I mean you married the guy, and I am sure you have talked with him about his disrespect in the past. But to just leave him at the dinner table, get in an uber, and file seems a little odd, and I would think he at least deserves an explanation. [/quote]

+1  It sounds like a bit much.  I'm kind of shocked at all of the PPs talking like OP's husband is abusive.  He made fun of her cooking.  Actually, he didn't even make fun of her cooking.  He thought it was funny when BIL did.  That's worth divorcing over?

I don't know.  Maybe my personality is different.  My husband and I make fun of each other all of the time.   We both have healthy senses of humor and try not to take things like being bad at cooking too seriously.

OP at least could've explained to her husband why she wanted a divorce.

It's also funny because if OP had said that her husband got up from dinner, took an uber home, left, and then filed for divorce with no explanation, all of DCUM would be giving her sympathy and saying, "OMG, the least he could do is give you an explanation!"

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Oh FFS. Of course OP is giving him an explanation. He won't get it, because in his mind she's just a crappy cook who doesn't deserve the respect he affords his barber.

This was not one incident, people. It was the straw.

Go in peace, OP. I wish you happiness and strength in the face of women like PPs, who can't imagine the freedom of making a choice just for themselves.[/quote]

I know the freedom of making choices.  I married later because of that freedom.

But it doesn't sound like OP gave him an explanation.  She just left.   And she posted on here because she was hoping for a bunch of cheers.

If OP wants to divorce her husband, that's her call.  But in her post she acts like he's abusive because he laughed at a joke about her cooking.  She doesn't say what else, but that she left without talking to him.  I'm sorry, but if a man posted doing that to his wife, DCUM would go crazy acusing him of being overly sensitive and then abandoning his wife.

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