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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Delaying pregnancy by a couple of months wouldn't have done anything[/b], Lucy would probably have been pissed there was a pregnant woman at her wedding stealing attention. And what if the baby had been born three months early and spent weeks in the hospital? What if it was early in the pregnancy, she had a miscarriage, and her husband needed to stay home with her? What is early on she was put on bed rest? So many things can go wrong and delaying isn't a guarantee they'd be able to make it to the wedding.

OP, take care of your hubby and beautiful baby and forget about your loser in laws. If they are that histrionic they will end up divorced, then it won't even matter that you missed their wedding. [/quote]

There also could be another sibling who might marry another x months later.  If you have a sibling or two on each side it's near impossible to plan pregnancy around weddings.  [/quote]

There is also no obligation to do so. What a ridiculous thing to even suppose. Normal people understand that life happens and do not feel upset or upstaged because their perfect day is interrupted by someone else's life events (good or bad). If the SIL is so inflexible that her wedding is ruined by not having an even number of attendants, she should have planned for that contingency by either skipping the OP's husband as an attendant, or having a backup ready.[/quote]

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